When the music ends, since it is usually playing from a music library or a streaming radio station, Ess expects another piece to begin playing:
“‘nother hong coming!”
She says it to Mykala, she says it to me. It’s very sweet. I do not recall her once getting upset when we couldn’t make another song start playing. It might be the only thing Ess feels particularly patient about right now. Our very toddlery toddler.
If you attempt to explain why you should vote to help others while exempting morality and selflessness (which can quickly veer into the tautological) from your argument, you’d be left with an argument from selfishness:
Why are you “owed” a police force, why are you owed a fire
department, why are you owed clean water or electricity,
why are you owed laws that protect your ideas through
patents or copyrights, why are you owed anything you enjoy
through a civil society that makes your life demonstrably
better than a libertarian wet dream like Zimbabwe?
I’ll tell you why. Because as a civil society we’ve
decided what’s a part of the commons, that which we can
not individually afford but whose existence we recognize,
serves us all. I have news for you: my life is better and
more secure if you and your kids aren’t bankrupted by
medical bills. My life is better if everyone has safe
streets and food. My life is better when the next
generation is well-educated to continue the prosperity of
this great nation. No one is owed, but it is a gift we
give to each other as citizens and the price we pay to
enjoy the blessings of our forefathers. And it is the
height of hubris to presume to take that gift of a civic
society and act as if it never existed before you showed
up.
I’ve no idea who wrote that, it is from some screenshot someone took and then posted to Twitter.
That silicone green half-sphere is a soft-boiled egg maker. Ess uses it as a bed for people. Her Playmobil Friend is in there, and she’s telling me about the mama and the dada taking care of Friend.
The most toddlery morning: find your almost year-old Easter dress in the closet, put it on over your clothes, then eat a banana on the couch in the sun.